If you’re a millennial, you probably know what fuckboi/fuckboy/fuccboy means. And for the not-so-millennial, it only refers to man-whores or guys who want to hook up with almost everybody.
The definition may be straightforward; but the real challenge is to identify them. Distinguishing fuckbois from normal guys can be tricky, especially if they’re camouflaging from all those seemingly good traits (handsome, hot, smart, gentleman, funny, sweet) that you do not want to associate with a dirty name like fuckboi. Years ago, one must have a good gaydar. Now, there’s a relentless need for a sharp “fuckboi radar.” A more dangerous dating world indeed! As your #TitaOfManila, I created a guide to help you know if you’re dating a fuckboi:
1. He uses buzz words and code phrases like “wanna hang out” “cuddle weather” “Netflix and chill” “I’m a good big spoon” “let’s grab a beer tonight” “are you living alone?” “Wanna come over to my place?” “you look so hot”
2. He offers to cook for you during your first week of dating.
3. He is following sexy girls, cheap girls, prostitutes, and promo girls on his social media. He likes photos of bikini girls all the time on Instagram and Facebook.
4. He is touchy-feely right away.
5. He only compliments your body and nothing more. He doesn’t show interest in your life.
6. He only messages you whenever you post your bikini/sexy photos.
7. He is inconsistent. He treats you like a queen in some days then forgets about you in between. He only talks to you whenever he needs you.
8. He is only sweet in the beginning.
9. He’s always trying to show his perfect sculpture: #gymselfies #beachselfies #absday
10. He’s always on the phone chatting with unknowns. And he always hides his phone screen from you.
11. He sends you his topless/sexy photos and forces you to send yours in return.
12. His dating history is as colorful and shorty as your dress choices.
13. He only talks about “the now.” He’s allergic to words like future, commitment, relationship, exclusivity and us.
14. He doesn’t make an effort to make you happy. You’re never his priority and he doesn’t include you in his plans.
15. He’s a party boy but he doesn’t want to party with you all the time.
16. He doesn’t look you in the eye.
17. He’s a robot without emotions.
18. He only loves alone time with you. He does not want to be seen in public with you. He doesn’t want to be introduced to your friends and family and he doesn’t want to introduce you to his friends and family.
19. He’s proud that you’re just one of his MANY girls.
Yep, fuckbois are real. Most of the time it’s hard to spot them, especially when you’re blinded with their good qualities. They’re not animals and they can charm you with their intelligence, perfection, looks, self-esteem-boosting compliments, and sweetness. Do not invest your feelings with them for you will end up hurting yourself. Some fuckbois are just not ready to commit— maybe they’re still in their “casual fun phase.” But some fuckbois are just fuckbois for life. So if you’re dating and you want a REAL relationship in the future, stay away from them. But if you can stand them, GOOD LUCK for “Netflix and chill” can be boring and tiring in the long run 😉
Love,
Tita Jazz
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